The Elopement
just the two of you, or twelve
Officiant and permits, a photographer, a private table for a very long lunch. Planned in weeks, remembered for a lifetime.
from €18,000
Begin with the Elopement
ROMA · COSTIERA AMALFITANA · TOSCANA · LAGO DI COMO
Long tables, late light, nothing left to chance.
VILLA AURELIA, ROMA · JUNE 2026
OLEANDER · ROMAN° 12 · STAGIONE 2027
Cari sposi,
Oleander plans and designs a small number of weddings each year, in Rome, on the Amalfi Coast, on Lake Como and in the hills of Tuscany and Puglia. Fewer weddings, made with more care.
- FULL PLANNING
- DESIGN AND STYLING
- GUEST EXPERIENCE
- DESTINATION WEEKENDS
Chiara
THE LOOKBOOK
VOLUME XII
Four weddings, four chapters
STAGIONE 2025
PRINTED IN ROMA
RomaPositanoRavelloVal d'OrciaLago di ComoPugliaCapri
Not a checklist. A point of view.
Igrew up between Rome and my grandmother's house in Ravello, where every Sunday lunch was a production. I spent a decade producing fashion shows in Milan and Paris before I planned my first wedding, for a friend, in a lemon grove.
Oleander is still small on purpose. Every couple works with me directly, from the first call to the last dance, and with a team that has worked together for more than a decade.
Chiara
LE PROPOSTE
Three ways to begin
Every wedding is quoted individually after our first conversation. These are where most of our couples start.
The Weekend
welcome dinner, wedding, the morning after
Venue, vendors, guest travel and three days of design that read as one story. Our most requested way to work together.
from €85,000
Begin with the WeekendThe Palazzo
full scale, full service
Private estates, orchestras, fireworks over the water, and a dedicated team from the first call to the final toast.
by proposal
Begin with the PalazzoHow it unfolds
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MESE UNO
A long first conversation
About the two of you before the chairs. Then a proposal with an honest budget.
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MESI DUE E TRE
Scouting, in person or by video
We walk every venue with you, so you choose before you book a flight.
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MESI QUATTRO A OTTO
The design book
Florals, paper, music and light, bound into one book you can hold and mark up.
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IL FINE SETTIMANA
You simply arrive
We run every minute of the weekend. Your only job is to be there.
A NOTE FROM POSITANO
“Chiara gave us the wedding we would have planned ourselves, if we had perfect taste and a year off work.”
Noor and Alexander
POSITANO · SEPTEMBER 2025
Chiara Bellandi
Oleander
Roma, Italia
CARTA DELLE NOZZE · DISEGNATA A MANO
Where we work
i.
Roma
Private villas, palazzo courtyards and terraces above the domes.
ii.
Costiera Amalfitana
Lemon groves, cliffside gardens and boats to the reception.
iii.
Toscana
Cypress drives, borghi and long tables in the vines.
iv.
Puglia
Masserie, olive groves and whitewashed courtyards by the sea.
v.
Lago di Como
Lakeside villas, boat arrivals and terraced gardens at dusk.
Tell us about the day.
We accept twelve weddings a year and are now planning for 2027 and 2028. Chiara replies to every inquiry personally within two days.